Summary of the video:
1. Play Hard to Get
2. Don’t Bombard Him
3. Have Other Interests
4. Know What Interests Him
5. Don’t make false promises
6. Don’t send any photos you will regret later
7. Ask for his opinion/advice
8. Don’t appear needy
9. Make other plans
10. Realize your worth
Do you know what the etiquette of texting is? When it comes to women texting men, most females don’t really know how to flirt by text. They make common little mistakes that can do irreparable harm for their chance at happiness. What mistakes do women tend to make when texting someone they like?
1 – One Liner Texts
While both men and woman are guilty of the one liner texts, men are far guiltier of doing it. What’s the one liner text? It’s when you have nothing really to say except “Hi”, “Hello”, “Yo”, etc. There’s nothing flirty about one liner texts; omit them from the conversation.
2 – Oversharing
When you’re flirting by text, it’s vitally important you don’t overshare your life’s details. The idea is to keep him/her interested. If you overshare, what more do they need to find out about you? Keep all texts to one or two sentences and be a little mysterious in them.
3 – Naked Pictures
Believe it or not, men and women do not like to get naked picture texts. As much as that might surprise folks, most men and women don’t want to see a naked body in their text message. Naked pictures don’t leave much for the man to imagine. And, keep in mind, if you’re sending naked picture text messages to a guy you barely know, they’re bound to show it off to their male friends or post it on the ‘net.
If you really want to send a naked picture by text, do it without your face in it. Consider sending him a hip and stomach pic to drive him wild and leave him thinking what else does she have to offer?
4 – Needy Texts
This is really self-explanatory! Don’t send texts like:
- haven’t I heard from you?
- What you up to right now?
- Who are you hanging out with?
- Where are you at?
- Do you like someone else?
Texts like these will only make a man run for the highest hill and furthest away from you. Here is something to remember: take a nice deep breath before you start writing a text. Ask your best guy friend if what you’re writing would freak him out and if you’re given a yes, don’t send it! Just delete it!
5 – Broad Questions
Never send broad questions through text messages because answering them in 160 characters or less can be difficult to do. Rather, asking poignant questions like “Did you see the game”, “Did you have to work”, etc. These things will allow him to send you quick replies.
6 – The Talk
When you said text messages, you don’t want the person receiving them feeling like their own the guillotine. If you come across as being mad, he’s likely not to respond to you or dread doing so.
7 – Missing Messages
Don’t ever send the following text message, “Did you get my last text?” The reason is that more than likely he did get it and decided not to respond to it. If you want him to respond, keep things lighthearted so you don’t come across as annoying.
8 – Accusation Texts
The last thing you need to do is fight by texts. Don’t come across as accusatory or spiteful. It’s true that waiting for a man to respond to your texts will cause the anger to build up.
Do you want to make your guy go crazy for you and make him want you all the time? Does your man think about you the way you think about him? You think 24/7 about your man, but does he do the same? If you are worried and dying hard to know and learn the ways to mesmerize a man along with making him love and think about you all the time. Read this….
If you are in a tight spot and wondering how to make him fall for you, then there is something you need to know.
Undoubtedly, the first steps towards new relationship are the best part of the entire relation. The first meeting or date always brings goose bumps and a tingly feeling of butterflies, which cannot be false. Every feeling that puts the foundation of a new relationship is 100% genuine.
Now the question arises, can this feeling stay forever? Can you make the guy love you more and more with every passing day?
How to become his center of attention? Okay, now somehow you managed to grab his attention for once, but how to ensure that his eyes will stick to you and he’ll start thinking about you for eternity?
Then, hey, how to mesmerize him?
As, you know and might have felt as well; men are somewhat more single minded than women. A women manages to live two phase of life together, 1. A dedicated wife, and 2. a lover; while men don’t or say, they just don’t see the way we do.
Men live a life of specific criterion, where no situation is equal and does not come with potential alternatives.
Not picking the call or not answering the call, would not mean anything negative for him. He’ll just think that you were busy rather than thinking that you are not interested.
So, your first task should be to find his area of interest and keep him interested, thus make him want you.
Your strength and weapons? Control and self confidence. Here is an easy guide for you that will make him love you more and more every day.
HOW TO MAKE HIM KEEP THINKING OF YOU
#1 Busy Lady
Be a busy lady than a free one. Never make him feel or look that you are desperately waiting for his call. Plan your days, go out, make new hobbies, even if you just want to shift your life a bit.
Be a busy bee and let him know that “very well.” This will not just keep him focused on you, rather he would feel himself lucky to get some time to spend with you.
#2 Do not Bother
Women think from heart and are very easy in opening their emotions; however, this is the biggest mistake made by most of the women. Stop complaining on things like, why didn’t you call me last night/yesterday or today? The blow of questions would do no good, than pushing him away from you. Rather comments like, you have changed or you used to do this before… makes the situation worse. Always keep in mind, men dislike the 24X7 question quiz about relationships.
The beginning of a relationship is often very exciting, as hormones are on overdrive, thus making him want you 24X7. He would want to spend every single moment with you, even if it’s a few steps walk. But, like everything in the world, both life and relationship are progressive.
Gradually, the relationship attains the phase, when you both get comfortable with each other, this is where distance starts taking place as you do not make call every now and then, to feel loved.
#3 Love yourself
If you want to make him fall for you, fall for yourself first. Wear something you like, something that gives you pleasure and makes you feel young and beautiful. When you feel it, it shows. And he’ll would definitely reciprocate the desire.
#4 Good appearances
No matter, how old the proverb is…. But making positive impressions do work. And here, you have to make a series of good impressions. Before showering all your love to him, focus on your appearance and ideas. [Read: Five Dressing Ideas]
#5 Take initiatives
This is all about love not war, so stop taking it the hard way. A direct bedroom strategy or playing games would not be helpful. Not unless, you find it predictable and potential enough to last. If you want him to stick to you and be his center of attention, keep his interests pinned and piqued. You may start with leaving a message commanding him to plan an outing or arrange a romantic dinner at your favorite restaurant.
#6 Blow his ego
This is one of the most obvious steps. Putting compliments over his looks, manners talents, slightly touching his body while passing by, making lots of eye contact and offering smoldering looks, will definitely help you out. Knowing that a smoking hot girl is all ready to get him, will make him want the girl the same way a.k.a. you, all the more.
You might have heard guys demanding for some space and guy time, but this is not always true. It completely depends on your outlook, whether accept this and leave or make him want you, without asking him do make even a single move.
Show him the real women in you. Let him know, how confident and outgoing you are, and to make a stand you don’t need anybody.
These tips will not only make him fall in love with you or want you all the time, but beg you to shower some attention and be around all the more.
Women have always seemed to hold some sort of magical power over men, but it’s not every female that knows how to use it. Believe it or not, there are flirting experts that can tell you exactly how to use your feminine charms. There is even a conference, known as Single in Stilettos, where unattached ladies can learn the tips of the flirting trade from experts such as Tracey Steinberg. Learning these tips can give women everything they need to get out there are use their feminine wiles to pick up any guy that catches their eye. How cool would it be to go from being the quiet wallflower to the girl that can flirt her way through a room full of guys?
Miss Steinberg describes flirting as a form of playful communication which both the man and the woman get a kick out of. Flirting involves a lot of subtle body language and just the slightest bit of thinking. Even married women like to flirt a little, just to let everyone know that they still possess that magnetic personality that will attract the fellas. It can be a real ego boost to catch the eye of guys and receive their compliments, knowing you don’t have to act on them. If the idea of flirting with cute guys sounds appealing, then you have to prepare yourself by readying your persona and outer appearance.
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If you aren’t sure what we mean by saying that, think of a woman that men desire, such as Angelina Jolie. Steinberg recommends trying to imitate some of the qualities that make her so desirable. One mistake not to make is depending too much on what you wear, as an overtly sexy article of clothing can send the wrong message. You also have to start thinking in a positive manner, with Steinberg suggesting you use affirmations like “I’m a sexy woman” a few times per day. Once you really start to feel the way you think, it’s time to unleash your new persona on those unwitting guys in the places where they regularly hang out.
It may come as a surprise to learn that it’s actually women who initiate the majority of interactions between the sexes. We aren’t suggesting you hit on every single guy that crosses your path, though. Only choose guys that you really like, making sure to include physical signals in your conversation. That means making eye contact and smiling regularly. If you are doing that to a guy across the room, he will immediately know that you are interested and will have the confidence to come over to you. When he comes over, be sure to keep the conversation alive by keeping the subject matter light. Talk about things like the music that playing or what you are drinking, saving the deeper subjects for a later date.
Why not get your girlfriends together and show them your new flirting techniques. You could make a flirting game out of your night out by seeing who can get the most phone numbers from guys. Maybe you’ll even strike lucky and end up finding your soul mate.
Millions of women have trouble attracting men because they simply try too hard. You don’t have to be overly-flirtatious or dress in revealing clothing to get a member of the opposite sex. While some men may like it, this can actually be a huge turn off for a lot of them. If you want to know how to be a man magnet, keep reading and I’ll share with you some basic rules and principles to follow that are sure to turn the heads of men as you walk by.
In a perfect world, women could wake up in the morning, not worry about doing our hair and makeup, and still have guys attracted to us. Unfortunately, if you want men to find you attractive, you’ll need to spend a little time and effort on your presentation. Don’t overboard with layers of makeup caked on your face, but instead lay a basic foundation and emphasize your best facial features. If you have beautiful eyes, use a little eyeliner or add some color on your eyelids.
Hair is arguably one of the most important features on a woman and should never be overlooked. Sure, it’s easier to toss your hair in a ponytail and be done with it for the day, but this is unacceptable unless you’re lying around the house all day eating bon-bons and watching talk shows. Take pride in being a woman and have your hair professionally done by a stylist at least once a month. If this is your first time going to a hair stylist, ask them what type of style would look best on you. A good stylist will be able to critique your hair and transform it into a style that fits you best. After they’ve done your hair, be sure to ask them what you type of maintenance it requires and how you can style it at home.
Even though hair, nails and makeup are important features for women, we should also look at our confidence. It’s scientifically proven that if women don’t think she’s attractive, men wont either. Always carry yourself confidently by walking upright with good posture, talking in a firm, yet feminine tone, and not worrying about what other people think around. This is a huge change for many women and some will find it difficult to do, but after a while it becomes natural.
Typically, men want women who are well-spoken and interesting to talk to. If you get approached by an attractive man at a bar, don’t be afraid to strike up an intellectually-stimulating conversation with him. Keep him on his toes by not coming off as the typical “ditsy” girl who doesn’t know how to properly converse. When he asks you something, be yourself and answer truthfully. Guys don’t want girls to always agree to everything they say or ask.
Even with all of these tips, the most important piece of advice I can give is to be yourself and present yourself with confidence. Finding a man isn’t hard, but attracting one that’s a keeper requires a little bit of effort on your part.